I was still going out with james when i met my husband, ben. Weeach other because we went to the same gym twice a week. We went out with each other for about 18 months , and we got exthree years ago,so. Exwe've been a couple for almost five years. We've contunued to go to the gym ever. Exwe got married, and i still quite often see James when we're there. It's nice if you can still exwith an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.