my parents and i get on very well with each other, but sometimes we can't avoid conflicts. usually these conflicts happen when we misunderstand each other or can't come to a kind of decision that would satisfy the wishes of all family members. sometimes conflicts between me and my parents may happen just because they care about me and worry that some things i find really innocent would hurt me. that's when they usually try to impose their own life experience on me, which prevents me from experimenting or becoming more independent.
it would be ideal to not have any conflicts at all, but if they happen, it's important to resolve them as soon ap possible. the most effective way to a family conflict resolution is discussing the problem and doing our best to find the way to perfect understanding each other's point of view, because the best way to leading peaceful life is being sincere, tolerant, patient and loving person. sometimes it's necessary to prove my point of view, and when my arguments sound mature enough my parents perceive me as an adult, responsible and sterling person.
I want to tell you a story about the strong guy. When he was only 10 years old, he survived the fire. He was lucky enough to avoid the tragedy, but burn victims had been visiting him for a year in the nightmares. Insomnia absorbed him. When he was 13, he had an accident. No one died there, but he had surgery. Anaesthetics helped him to relieve the pain, but his brain wasn't sleeping. It was full of many different sounds such as clucks, snoring and saw. Doctors said it was the normal side effect. 5 years later, his grandfather died. Colours left his life, everything became dim. His restless soul chose the wrong way. Alcohol mesmerized him, it looked like a magic wand. Then panic attacks started to lash him. He realised his addiction only made it worse and decided to kick the habit. Now he's 25 years old man in the recovery stage, and I'm proud he has almost fought his demons.
